TY - BOOK AU - Thierry,Betsy de AU - Reeves,Emma TI - The simple guide to understanding shame in children: what it is and how to help SN - 9781785925054 PY - 2019/// CY - London PB - Jessica Kingsley KW - Shame KW - Child welfare KW - Self-esteem KW - Child psychiatry KW - Child psychology N1 - Preface -- What is shame? -- What is the impact of shame? -- The neurobiology of shame -- How do children get shamed? -- Shame symptoms: a) hiding, masks, silence and sorry -- Shame symptoms: b) deceit, lying, critical of others and projection -- Shame symptoms: c) self hatred, self rejection and anger -- Shame symptoms: d) emotional shut down, dissociation & confusion -- How can we help heal shame? -- Building shame resilience -- Conclusion N2 - The perfect starting point for any adult or carer working with children who have experienced shame, this guide provides straightforward answers and explanations to both common and complex questions. At a time when children are more likely than ever to experience shame, the accessible advice in this book helps adults to boost children's self-esteem. Betsy de Thierry navigates the need to understand its impact and the reasons behind it, as well as how to reduce its hold on self-confidence. Reassuring advice will also help revitalize adults' abilities to face the challenges of supporting children affected by shame. It will teach them how to restore self-esteem ER -